How to be Charming

If you have a hardtime cranking up the charm here are five steps on how to be charming......I've had to work on it for years.
 As much as I have been chopping up the idea of Valentines Day, I think that its necessary to show that even thought you may be hacked off at the idea of being a non romantic person, you can still be a human magnet by using charm :)


 1. Take a genuine interest in people. The biggest difference between those with believable charm and those who seem fake, is an interest in others. When you speak with someone, really listen, ask questions and respond appropriately.


2. Remember people's names and use them. There is a tendency for people to respond to the use of their own name. They warm towards others who thoughtfully use their names, and it's impressive if you remember someone's name after one meeting.

3. Be generous with comments and be gracious when you receive them. A willingness to give people credit for their positive actions and accomplishments is the sign of a person with charm and character. Likewise, if you accept compliments with grace and a simple "thank you," you will impress.

4. Greet others with a solid handshake and eye contact. A solid handshake generally communicates a strong personality and a high level of confidence. Eye contact helps you seem interested in people and make connections.

5. Carry yourself with confidence. To ensure that you appear confident, try to maintain good posture at all times, keep your head held high, and try to appear chipper. A sunny personality is charming in itself.